Bojana

Tsai: what can we say on bojana
Tsai: she's quite perverted, a regular of mine said
Bojana: bitch with a golden fanny?
Tsai: A bitch with a golden fanny

They say Bojana is French.. Well actually she is. She is also one of the owners of Street Whores now. And quite a perverted one. They say..

"Wear shoes"

I am not sure which one of us has the weirdest sense of humour.

Wednesday morning whoring

Just like often on a wednesday morning I am out here, in the cold air of the night. It still needs to get light and the punters from the US are still scouring the streets, looking for some cheap meat.

A  typical morning in which you can run into the likes of me, Stephanie and the other girls here at Street Whores - Town Square. Occasionally you will see our little otter, Whotter, looking around in the trash bags that are never picked up by garbage disposal.
That's pretty much it, there's no glamour to it. Just the stuff I write down in this blog. We're not sad or lamentable either. We're here and we play our roles.

On the stigmatization of punters

Punters are rough, drunk, violent types. They tend to abuse women more often than other men etc. etc.

This kind of reasoning is often used by lobby groups, often with Christian backgrounds, and politicians to propose legislation and rules that should 'protect' sex workers. The agenda is trying to abolish or at least minimise the sector, since prostitution is of course an indignified act that threatens the holy act of sexual intercourse (sex is not supposed to be a recreational activity, but has to happen within the boundaries of at least some sort of relationship).
These people criminalise and marginalise prostitutes and put them to even more danger by effectively disabling them from actually taking part in the public dialogue. This is done in the most despicable way: emphasising the stigma on sex work that already exists in society.

Anyone who ever took this serious and talked to a prostitute will know: punters are 'just like real men'. Actually, there is no difference. Many of them are in relationships, also these guys, regardless of what you think about 'cheating', tend to be nice. Yes, nice.

Punters are being stigmatized as well. This is done in a very simple way: by using the age-old theme of the man as agressor in a sexual relationship. Women are passive, men are agressive.
This deliberately overlooks the fact that men can be vulnerable as well. There are sexual issues (impotence, erection disorders), there are handicapped or old men. And yes, some men are just shy.

Actually, even in the virtual world of Second Life many clients are just shy. They are careful not to hurt our feelings or just a bit insecure about living out their fantasies.

Even the man who caused me to wear the bruises layers for the roleplay that resulted in the first photo was considerate. He was actually nice and asked about my limits. Then we had fun roleplaying something in a safe environment. Neither of us would have done this in RL.

And yes, also fantasies are being stigmatized. It is weird to dream up something 'wild' or 'perverted'. Thoughts are not free. We have to free them ourselves.

Of course, people who are on the abolitionist side in the debate will try to disable me from taking part in the discussion as well: I am just hiding behind my avatar. Yes, I am, that is because of the stigmatisation of my fantasies... You are doing this. That doesn't mean that I am not a concerned citizen that sees what happens in the world around her.

Prowling the streets in pink

Once again, you'd say, as everyone knows my favourite colour is pink.

And when I saw this pink little piece of almost nothing I decided I should get it. With no money left to repair the washing machine, a 100L for the dress wasn't so much really...

Dress is  the ".:EC:. Oma Dress", by Enelya's Creations. I have many of their things. They're nice, sexy and not expensive. Perfect work gear for me!