Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Rape roleplay and abusive clients: 2 different things


As an escort girl in Secondlife you can get pretty popular if you take on some sorts of 'specialised' jobs. Some girls are into BDSM, either as dominant or as submissive, some are into all sorts of roleplays.
The reason is simple: many people, not just men, have kinks and fantasies they like to live out. And their wives, girlfriends or friends may not always be willing to assist them with these. That's when a prostitute comes in handy.

Lately I had an assignment like this. The guy told me: "I want to rape you in all 3 openings." That's fine really, after all it is a virtual world. I apply a couple of bruises layers on my avatar and remove them when the game is over. In the meantime we play.
This particular guy had sent me an instant message, as he had been standing near my usual street corner, but outside the parcel. He told me he had been banned from our land. I recalled that I had possibly had him before as a client though, so I decided to ignore this sign of him being a possibly abusive customer and give him the benefit of the doubt.

This turned out to be a bad idea: the guy started off by loitering around in the room, entertaining me with sexy chat, while not having paid the 30 minutes fee up front.
If this takes too long, I may do a couple of things. this time I decided to first walk away from the screen, get myself something to drink and then return. Upon my return at the computer he was still busy with horny chat, not having paid up his fee in Linden Dollars. I asked him if he was planning to wait with paying until I was cooled down completely and he paid up. So far so good.
In his sex roleplay he was rough, well, that's what I was hired for. But having already wasted 10 minutes of my time in advance I was a bit weary of him going into overtime, which is what happened.
I made a remark about this and just got a reply that was in alignment with the roleplay, "Your my whore now!" but wasn't very useful otherwise. So I got up from the bed and waited besides it. No need for me to be patient anymore with this person.

"Come back to the bed!"
"I didn't cum yet!"

That is all very nice, really, but saying it shows little respect for someone's time. When I get these type of reactions, I am not someone's 'meat-for-rent' anymore, but I drop out of my role and I leave the scene. Rough sex and rape roleplay is not a valid pretext to act like an asshole at the personal level.
I report these people with the Whore Union, they keep a black list of bad clients in Secondlife, so that other girls can recognise them. They'll be warned for this one, next time.

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