Pro Tip 10: Fay: don't be fucking pushy with guys

Would you take advice from a girl who has that much cash stashed away in her cleavage? Well... I would, so I asked Fay Fire for a Pro Tip.

Fay Fire (fayna): You see guys landing here all the time... 3 whores greet him and tell him shit... Guy leaves 10 secs later... Why?
Tsai Cheng: I do the same in a clothing store, I want to look around quietly before I commit.
Fay Fire (fayna): Because he just can't bother wasting time having a conversation with multiple girls.... They come here in first place to avoid having to work on a conversation... Why would people think they want 4... I just dont get that
Tsai Cheng: Hmmm.
Fay Fire (fayna): In my experience... You do better if you stay totally silent and let the guys talk first.
Tsai Cheng: Yes, or give them a lead and see if they react. But don't overdo it.
Fay Fire (fayna): Then you engange in a convo... because the guy already showed you he wants a convo.
Tsai Cheng: If nothing comes back, stay put.
Fay Fire (fayna): And yes, it is like shopping: nothing bothers more a guy in a shop that getting "help" he didn't ask in first place.
Tsai Cheng: Hmm.
Fay Fire (fayna): Some might want you being super pushy... and that is fine, and you should be pushy with those... but many use that method as default.. and law of chances says it is a bááááád idea.

Pro Tip 9: Bojana: try to figure out what your client likes

I spoke with Bojana about my series 'Pro-Tips' almost 2 months ago now and she had actually given me a pro tip for my blog. I hadn't processed it until now though. So, it's about time:

"Always look at the Client's profile and try to work out what HE likes. Don't get stuck on what YOU offer..."

Being a whore is getting into someone's mind and becoming their fantasy. In RL learning to read the clues in someone's behaviour, or even their cock's reaction to what you do can be quite an art, in SL it can sometimes be much simpler: take the trouble to read someone's profile. Look at what it says, in SL and RL tabs, look at picks and groups.
Then you can have a look at their avatar and you may get an idea of what this person is about. Some may still surprise you of course. But that's part of the game too...  You will learn to read avatars over time.

Pro Tip 5: Titzy: have a consistent look

Every week there are one or more new girls who work the streets here. Some of them are newcomers, some are seasoned professionals. You don't always see that when you have just run into them. A little chat usually tells it.
Titzy could have been either when I met her, a lot of detail to her avatar revealed that she knew SL well, but it didn't tell me whether she was new to whoring. We were alone in the Meat Market for quite a while. After she clicked my boobies (they give out my rates and a link to this blog) we ended up chatting.
She has been whoring in SL for 8 years now, one year more than me and she has pretty much seen it all. New to this place, she wondered whether the men here would like a girl that is both top and bottom-heavy. "They help balance my ginormious ass, " she told me about her boobs. I assured her that there will be plenty men who like large breasts and with the services she offers, there'll most likely be business.

Titzy's Pro Tip

Titzy has a good tip for all of us, as we were talking about our shapes and skins, meshes etc. we both agreed that changing looks too drastically is bad for business. She said:

"I update mine, I do not make major changes to my look as a rule. It helps with the business a LOT to have a consistant look. Guys want to hire a person... Not a shapeshifting thing."

All Pro Tips

Moving away from the traffic

We're always being told how good 'traffic' is in Second Life and how important it is to have many visitors in your region. I can tell you, some days it is a pest to be in a busy place, especially if the 'busyness' doesn't translate to 'business'.

When the street is full of girls who don't communicate (except in instant message maybe, but I can't see that, so they might as well be asleep) and quiet men who either cam around with their other hand in their pants, or who might be just as AFK, then it's time to move away a bit.
For me the trade-off is simple: I create a filter this way, that makes sure that people have to walk towards me to get in chat range. AFK people don't walk. So this way I ensure that when someone gets near, I know it is eather an active colleague or an interested punter.
Isn't it all quiet and lonely like this? Yes, sometimes. But I prefer to spend some time on this blog and wait for a sound from my radar or an IM window to trigger me.

In the meantime... I can write stuff for you guys...

Blogging whores meet in the streets

Caroline Resident runs a succesful blog on her travels in the virtual world of Second Life, well that's how I would phrase it. She's described being an escort before in her blog and now she's ready to take the job one step further down on the level of social acceptance, to see what happens in the world of street whores.

That's when you easily run into me of course, so I decided to contact her on Twitter and meet up, in the streets.

Throughout the past years I shrunk a little and I found out that Carol, being a big blogger, has an avatar that's quite a bit shorter than mine. Many men seem to like petite, so I don't think that'll be a disadvantage in her new job.

We met already yesterday, when I had a bunch of cients in a row, without actually having to take my clothes off (that happens too), but today we had more time to chat. Mostly about blogging, kinks and things that happen in SL. Looking at her blog and experience in Second Life, I think she will have little trouble adapting to the life of a street whore.

Let's see. It's always nice to welcome a new colleague, even if it's a temp.

Lazy hookers rooftop lounge

It was one of these days. I don't think I have to explain what sort of day, you have guessed it already: the waiting was endless. The men were neither hard, nor horny. They certainly didn't bring any juice into the game. So what does a hard-working hooker do then?

I can't tell you what a hard-working hooker does, honestly, but the not-so-hard-working hooker will turn it into a nice, lazy, and possibly horny day nonetheless. The party just goes on without you.
This time my friends Suzi, Bojana and Misty had decided to drag an old sofa up on the rooftop of the pub. This made us a perfect spot to overlook 'the battlefield' below.

It was a nice and comfy, but at the same time very exciting solution to the problem of the saay: how do we get through it. While we were smoking our joints and laughing at the girls below, who were still trying to work, we slowly wasted our hours away in happiness. That's one of the better ways to let a day go to ruin. I can tell you. Many productive, hard-working men would be envious of us. Their wives, well... they never liked us anyways, so I'm not going to mention those.

A hooker on the net

One of the things a girl working as an escort, or if you prefer, prostitute, hooker etc. in Second Life will run into are advertisement boards. These boards can be rented at many places in Secondlife. Having one at a busy club or a wellknown redlight district can make sense. The downside for many new girls in the job is: these boards can be notoriously hard to configure.

Being one of the experienced persons around, I sometimes get requests to help with the ad signs. I used to kind of like to get the new girls started out, but at some point it gets annoying. The reason is simple: once you start helping people out with these things, others will flock to you as well with their little tech problems. When they're done with the advertisement signs, the next thing will be the teleporter to the sex rooms and after that they will find something new.

The simple truth, of course is, I don't really know so much more about these items. I'm just a simple girl trying to make a living by spreading her legs. When I learnt to use a teleporter, an advertisement sign etc. I simply did so by reading the manual and doing exactly what it told me. This is also what I do when someone asks me for help. Do they really think I know everything? I simply look it up again.

A tiny prick

Sometimes we are just nasty. Some think it is because us street whores lead such hard lives, but the truth is, we don't really need a reason for it, we just are. Like the other day: this guy came along and was looking for a girl. One of us stepped up to him and inspected his trousers. She slid her hand into it and laughed. Then the three of us went with him into a dark alley.

I was standing behind him, blocking his path back. Of course he could have pushed me aside, but he was a sissy and we knew it. We spent the next 15 minutes laughing at him, especially when he pulled out his cock and started to beg us to blow him.
When we were tired of him, we took the money and we left the scene.

An intellectual tart

Some of my clients are smart. I mean: not just smart, but like... REALLY smart. They read books and such. Some of them are programmers, lawyers. Maybe this surprises you, but it's true: there are actually good men who hire hookers. they're not all drugs dealers and criminals.

For some of them I try to do a little extra. And I do my best to look a bit smarter myself as well. To make them feel more comfortable.

It doesn't always work. Like the other day: my guy had to go AFK (away from keyboard) and I decided to entertain myself for a while with my new novel. After a short while my guy looked up from his work and made the remark: "That book has no letters in it."

I suppose you can't just fake everything. Dang.

RLV Trap for Secondlife Whores

Chez was found in a sort of box today on the street. We were all a bit puzzled about it. Some clicking on the box explained a lot to us: it was a kind of trap. A girl could be trapped by clicking on it. That is, of course: if she was actually wearing an RLV-collar and had RestrainedLove enabled in her viewer.
Chez wasn't AFK though and she told us that we could also use the cabin without RLV enabled. Guys could pay the sign on the box and fuck us.

 

This seemed like fun of course, so in a few minutes we were all setup. A perfect way to spend the time inbetween 2 cups of coffee.

Three hookers and a monster

It's a typical summer morning in the streets of Secondlife: 3 street hookers are guarding their little corner of town and a monster drops by for a chat. I suppose he doesn't want to hire one of the girls since he poofs again after a short conversation.

That's life.

Hot day

It's a hot day and the men are horny. The girls are lazy though. But I suppose that doesn't matter. We can be slow, lay on our backs and leave the heavy work to them.

It's getting busy, that's for sure. But unless the men have any cash on them, it doesn't mean much. I might as well blog a little and ignore the freebee hunters and lost souls that end up on our sim. If one of them needs me, he knows the drill.

The girl with the dragon tattoo is patient. She relies on the sound of her radar and ignores the crap. Saving all of her energy for an erotic adventure with someone who appreciates.

Someone like the guy that Elvira just hooked. She's an 'experienced' girl too and she knows how to get drilled.

Mondays mondays

Early monday morning and who's on the prowl?

A bunch of street prostitutes, looking for their first fixes this week. Their butts turning around in little circles before your eyes. Which one will you pick?
She extinguishes her cigarette and grabs a box of condoms from her handbag. The banknotes disappear in it. Her bottom seems happy and eager as she walks down the street, a fixation point for your eyes as you disappear round the corner of the alley.

Banned while looking for a job opening

I got banned and ejected somewhere, that doesn't happen often to me. Typically I am a good whore: I am always sweet, especially to my guys.

So, what happened? A place called 'Lolita's' advertised in one of my many tart groups in Secondlife. I thought it interesting to have a peek over there and see if they might be hiring. The club was located on Zen Beach region.
Before I was even rezzed some girl decided to ban and eject me. I guess they were not hiring and they're so afraid of competition that they ban any woman on sight. Bad habit for a hooker: I guess some will never learn it.

Naturally I am going to advice you against hiring hookers there. Get me instead, I am at my usual workplace ;-)

On the prowl with Steph and Leah

Here I am with my friend Stephanie (succubus.independent), to my right on this photo. We were talking at Suzi's today, our usual hangout, when we ran into Leah Rumble. She's the voluptuous girl to my left. Leah used to work a lot at Suzi's in the past and she's just back.

The whole scene just shows what we have in stock for the guys: we cum in all colours and sizes!

A whore's life: overview of the month September

I just realised it's been a month since I wrote my last post. It's about time to give you an idea of what I've been up to.

First of all, I've been trying to find my way back into the porn business. It has been almost a year since my last film. It's not that my lips and thighs have gone rusty, I'm bad enough when I need to be  ;-) I'm just finding it hard to make the right connections again.
And really, even though I do like writing in my blog, can you imagine me working in a bookstore? It just might go painfully wrong if I expect my clients there to bend me over the counter. :-P

So.. now you may have an idea of what keeps me in the streets. It's just that I get to do what I like most there: mess with the minds of men: innocent students, adultering husbands and dirty bums. I don't care. As long as they pay me, I'll make them get off in ways that'll make them come back again and again.

I expect my men to be respectful though. I mean: they can bend me over the next trashcan in the street if they like, but I want them to respect my time and my roleplay. That's why I like to hangout with people like my friend Billy. He's a true gentleman who understands my position.

Some other guys are just fascinating, like this man I met at Pink Velvet Club, where I dance a few nights a week now. According to his stories has done so many things in his life. And now he travels SL as a backpacker.. Amazing.

So.. that is just me out in the rains of early autumn. I hope the foul weather will drive the men back behind their PC's and into our virtual brothels. It's my only hope. Otherwise I'm going to be truely poor, like Johan, local street beggar at Street whores in Wirtz. I will be sleeping in the streets like this:

Home Sweet Home

Sita Delvalle came back today and showed me around the new building of the Home Sweet Home Bordello. It's not a church anymore, but a nice house, with a little more light in it. An intimate and small brothel which will definitely attract a nice group of men..

It can be found at one of the streets in the Wirtz sim at http://slurl.com/secondlife/Wirtz/95/77/55. If one of us girls is in the neighbourhood we can open it for you and show you around...

Colleagues

Being a whore isn't always as much fun. Sometimes the job is simply boring. Whoring involves waiting, hanging around till a guy drops from the sky. In Secondlife this is often an event that happens very literally.

In between tricks, a working girl is more something like a waiting girl. Looking sexy and wearing a cute handbag may help for a while then, but in the end it can be a pretty boring job.

That's where colleagues come in. Having the other girls around is often the most fun part of the job. We share experiences, frustrations, but mostly funny stories. We fantasize, play and tease one another. And sometimes we fight, for instance about a guy that dropped from the sky.

Scary places

Being a street prostitute isn't always as much fun. The places we hang out in can get pretty scary.

My principal hangout, 'Suzi's Place' as we call it, or more precisely, 'Street Whores - Town Square' is located in the Wirtz sim, on the Zindra continent. This is the adult continent of Second Life.

And while I meet my share of very nice and friendly people there, sometimes it does get bad.. I'd better not share all the details with you..

Then it is sometimes needed to take a little break and find myself another spot, to work, or to relax in. The ferns, a romantic cave and a tropical sun.. It is not more than a single teleport away from the harsh urban environments in SecondLife.

The Escorts and Hookers Union

There is also a union for working girls I found out. My friend Rebella Sensuella pointed me to it. She is one of the leading figures in the organisation.

The union helps prostitutes to identify bad clients and acts as an information resource in general. I will have to find out more about it the coming days. I did join the union of course..